Dad’s Advice May Not Be That Far Fetched

By
YOUNG MONEY Staff
14 June 2010
As it turns out, quite a bit, according to a recent release from the Federal Trade Commission. In honor of Father's Day, the regulator highlighted how some traditional pieces of fatherly advice may actually help younger people deal with their security and personal finance goals.
Take, for example, that typical complaint of many dads: How their kids present themselves. Taken as a piece of computer safety advice, it can actually come in handy. The things people post on their social networking pages could come back to haunt them when applying to colleges or looking for employment.
Then there's the classic warning of something going on a person's "permanent record." As it turns out, dad may actually be right.
"You do have a permanent record, and it's called a credit report," the FTC said. "Employers, landlords, and others consult your credit report to see if you pay your bills on time, so it's important that whats in it is accurate."
Young people who are interest in checking up on their credit report should know they are entitled by law to a free copy every year from the three main credit reporting bureaus.
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I can empathize with your new client. As a child, as for many years as an adult, I had no real confidence in myself, regardless of accomplishments. When I was a child, my parents tried to teach me the lesson of the ‘Little Engine That Could.’ As you recall, it could because it though it could. Whenever they told me that, I say: “but I don’t think I can”, as that was a far as it ever went.
When I was in college I read a science fiction novel in which the main character (if I recall, I don’t really remember the details) was consumed by fear. So he learned this small poem, which I memorized and said it over and over to myself:
“I must not fear.
Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path.
Where the fear has gone there will be nothing.
Only I will remain.”
Recently I looked it up. It is from a book by Frank Herbert in the Dune series. Regardless of its origins, it really helped me; it helped that I memorized it and repeated it to myself a million times a day.
Well, there are other things that helped my in conquering fear and in ability to be confident, but that was one of the first steps.